I just watched this documentary,
Boy I Am from 2006. It followed these 3 transguys as they were getting top surgery, but a bit part of it was discussing the attitude of feminism towards transgender and ftms in particular.
Now, the top surgery aspect of it really interested me, especially Nicco because he said that he's never really had much of a dysphoria problem with his genitals, but his chest has been a huge problem for him. I totally related with that because that's my situation as well, so it was great to see someone talking about that. Often the guys in the vlogs I follow talk more about lower dysphoria, though obviously their chests affect them greatly as well.
But the feminism side of it really pissed me off. Now, lots of things about feminism does. Sometimes it seems to me that feminists just want to over-analyse, over-classify and moan about everything; I find myself just wanting to tell them to lighten up and get a fucking grip!
Now, I know that there are many great things about feminism: educating women about themselves and their bodies; working to empower women; create safe spaces for women and so on. I am not knocking the wonderful things that feminists do; I'm grateful for them. But so often, in feminist documentaries and at feminist events, feminism is used as a descriptor for some of the most reactionary, narrow-minded, off-putting points of view.
In the context of this documentary, they were talking about how cis-women and feminists in particular feel threatened by ftm transgenderism because they see it as a rejection of womanhood. Yet, feminism has fought for years for women to have control over their bodies, thus enabling ftms the freedom and ability to pursue the path they feel is right for them. It just baffles and infuriates me that people can see life like this and live in such a rigid way. I'm being far less eloquent than I would like, but this side of feminism just stupefies me, I mean, just, aaarghhh!!! wtf!!!
Anyway, rant over and despite my reaction to the feminist aspect of the film, I think it was a really good thing to watch. I'd really recommend it. :)